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| The yellow and blue circus tents beckoned. The excitement
of the crowd was palpable as we made our way up into
the big top and down to our seats. High above us elaborate
rigging held light operators, sound engineers and the
ropes, trapezes, and swings that are the hallmark of
this extraordinary production. The lights dimmed and
innumerable neon-clad jungle creatures began to slither
across the floor and shimmy up the bamboo struts that
encircled the round stage. We held our breath as an
angel with a twenty-foot feathered wingspan descended
from the ceiling elegantly spinning and flipping and
effortlessly flying in the air 30 feet above our eyes.
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| We
all love to be entertained—dazzled, shocked, awed,
inspired. In the presence of greatness we are enlarged
by the knowledge of the vast range and capability of
the human body and mind and spirit. We watch the 'impossible'
with the glee of five year olds, delighted to have our
notions of what can't be done smashed to smithereens
in front of our eyes. As a species we are inexorably
drawn to mastery, enthralled by the accomplishment and
the commitment it embodies.
The
juggler that night at the circus took his art to an
altogether different place. First, he wowed us with
the sheer virtuosity of his craft—juggling a variety
of things faster than seemed humanly possible. He ran
as he juggled, he hopped as he juggled. Like The Cat
in the Hat he spun balls upon balls while balancing
the whole contraption on his index finger. He juggled
things around his neck, over his head, behind his back
and through his legs. He raced across the stage throwing
hats into the air and capturing each of them on this
head as he juggled the other seven. He even juggled
three balls in and out of his mouth, spitting them 20
and 30 feet into the vaulted dome –“look
Ma, no hands!” He brought the audience to its
feet. We could not contain ourselves.
The
sheer virtuosity of the performance and this man's
evident delight in his skill were a wonderful reminder
to us all to push hard at the edges of our talents so
that we can move from mere capability towards mastery.
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| Absent
the motivating applause of a captivated crowd, how can
we move ourselves out of the complacent space of 'good
enough' to the terra incognita of excellence? What will
we gain? Why is it worth the effort?
Mastery is a journey. There is no destination that we
can mark on a map to 'know' when we get
there. In whatever area of your life you choose to move
toward mastery, the road will continue to unfold before
you as your skills improve continually. If you are willing
to stay the course, mastery is available to every single
one of us—whether you are learning how to touch
type, bake a pie or make a formal business presentation.
There are two key reasons most of us unconsciously back
off from a wholehearted commitment to mastery:
1.
Our culture lauds the quick fix, the instant
hit, immediate gratification. But mastery
lives in another world altogether, and to hold fast
to our desire to get really good
at anything, the first thing we need to embrace is
that the journey is a long one. It takes time to excel.
In fact, one of the great pleasures of mastery is
that by definition someone who is masterful has invested
enormous time with powerful focus and commitment.
The reason the circus juggler so captivated me and
the audience, was not only his tour de force virtuosity.
Just as exhilarating was our collective appreciation
of what it took for this man to get to this level
of talent.
2.
We give up when we plateau. Have
you had the experience of working really hard at something,
making meaningful progress and then for the longest
time finding yourself unable to take your effort to
the next level? Well, this is exactly the point where
most people fall off the 'mastery wagon.' Their patience
and faith in their own ability take them only so far,
and they shrug their shoulders and accept that they've
reached their own personal best.
But nothing could be further from the truth. Plateau-ing
is a natural part of learning. The plateau is where
you consolidate your skills and internalize them so
that they are second nature. The plateau is where
your mind and body are getting ready for the next
level of learning. So don't quit here! Continue
to practice your skills, take delight in the progress
you have already made and be patient.
So
my New Year's invitation to each of you is to
work toward mastery in one area of your life. Your progress
may be fast, it may be slow. You may feel like a klutz,
a child or even a fool. No matter. Working toward excellence
is a commitment toward your personal growth and an explicit
acknowledgement of how very vast each of us is.
And lighten up. Since there's nowhere 'to
get' you might as well enjoy the journey and delight
in every step you take.
Happy New Year! |
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About My Coaching:
As
a personal and executive coach, it is my goal to bring dynamic
leadership, a compassionate heart and powerful insight to
the lives of my coaching clients. I work to help clients identify
and pursue what is deeply meaningful in their lives and their
businesses, and collaborates with them to transform vague
yearnings or explicit goals into realities.
After graduating from Princeton University, I spent almost
20 years as an independent feature film, video and CD ROM
producer guiding projects to success. As President of Midwest
Film Productions, I honed my skills building productive teams
of people, working to intense deadlines, quickly and accurately
assessing complex situations and brainstorming and implementing
creative solutions. It was during these years that my passion
for small businesses emerged.
In my coaching practice I call on my extensive production
and business background with the express goal of helping my
clients live their lives and create their businesses by design
and not default.
I completed my coaches training through the prestigious
Coaches Training Institute, completed advanced training and
received my certification credential through them as well.
My
latest favorite quote: "A goal is a dream with a deadline."
If you are interested in exploring how coaching may be
of value to you personally or to your business, I am pleased
to offer a ‡ hour complimentary session. Please feel free
to give me a call or send me an email.
Contact me:
Dina Silver, CPCC
Pegasus Coaching Group
310-393-8082
dina@pegasuscoachinggroup.com
www.pegasuscoachinggroup.com
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