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| A friend shared a wonderful billboard message with me
the other day: “If happiness is just around the
corner, turn more often!” In a similar vein, I
offer my own billboard slogan: “if inspiration
is just around the corner, improvise more often!”
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| Nicolo
Paganini, the 18th century violinist and composer, is
considered by many to be the greatest violinist of all
time. His mastery of the instrument was so astonishing,
that those in attendance at his sold-out concerts often
wondered whether he had made a pact with the devil!
His gift was so gargantuan, and his comfort with the
violin so complete, that a concert challenge that would
have completely derailed most soloists, inspired Paganini
to a whole new level of improvisation.
He was playing in Italy with a full orchestra. The hall
was packed and the violinist was at the top of his form—his
tone was fantastic, his technique impeccable. The audience
sat breathless as Nicolo’s fingers raced up and
down the strings. His long hair flew as he dramatically
bowed and dipped with the music. The concert built to
an astonishing climax with notes reputedly played at
16 per second, and then the unthinkable occurred - one
string of his violin snapped and hung limply from the
instrument. Paganini frowned briefly, shook his head
and continued to play, improvising beautifully on the
remaining three.
Then to everyone’s shock, a second string broke.
And believe it or not, shortly thereafter, a third!
Paganini stood there with three strings dangling from
his Stradivarius! But instead of leaving the stage,
he stood his ground, signaled to the conductor to continue
and calmly completed his performance on the one remaining
string.
Instead of assuming that a violin solo played on one
string was impossible, he ignored common sense, stepped
into the unknown and people are still writing about
this dazzling concertizing moment 150 years later.
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| So
many of us have rules for ‘how things need to
be’ that it becomes extremely tough to move our
lives powerfully forward. We effectively pin ourselves
to the ground with a set of internal regulations that
we honor as gospel. We can’t start a
family until our careers are solid and successful. We
can’t get that job because our background
doesn’t match the description. We can’t
get the guy because he’s too handsome. We can’t
get a Master’s degree because we never completed
our Bachelor’s degree. We can’t
raise our rates because people won’t pay a penny
more. We can’t launch a business because we never
have. And on and on.
For better and for worse, the rules we set for ourselves
seal our fate. People start families with lots of love
and not much cash; people talk their way into jobs for
which they are supremely unqualified and create enormous
success; novices start businesses all the time. People
even find their way into Masters’ programs without
the requisite BA.
Life is not played by the rules. There could never be
enough rules to cover all of the possible permutations
of events we are faced with. The sooner we let go of
our expectation that things should go as expected, the
sooner we release our own improvisational energy. And
then, the sky is the limit.
So what is improvisation? In its purest form, improvisation
challenges how we think in an unexpected situation.
How will we solve a problem when we don’t have
the solution and there is no obvious answer? How quick
can we be on our feet? How will we invite our minds
to explore uncharted territory and what will we invent
from that new place?
Improvisation at work for example, shows up in the way
creative managers reallocate resources after budget
cuts or the way a clever CEO reconfigures the office
space to force communication between feuding teams.
At home we improvise when we turn Sunday’s leftovers
into an elegant and unexpected feast, or the way we
paw through old fabric and create the Halloween costume
of the decade.
Remember that fabulous scene in Apollo 13 when the ground
team is given a box full of objects identical to those
onboard the doomed capsule and tasked with saving the
crew and the ship using the most unrelated and seemingly
irrelevant materials? Talk about improv!
From time to time we are all faced with the opportunity
to do a ‘paganini improv.’ Stakes are high,
the challenge seems overwhelming, logic does not offer
a way out. The question we might ask ourselves next
time is whether we choose to walk off the stage in defeat
or hold our ground and improvise until lightning strikes
and the solution or course of action becomes clear.
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| About My Coaching:
As
a personal and executive coach, it is my goal to bring
dynamic leadership, a compassionate heart and powerful
insight to the lives of my coaching clients. I work
to help clients identify and pursue what is deeply meaningful
in their lives and their businesses, and collaborate
with them to transform vague yearnings or explicit goals
into realities.
Within organizations I work as an executive coach with
both senior level management and the teams they guide.
Thriving businesses depend on a clear and well-articulated
vision, exceptional leadership, powerful teams and honest
and respectful communication up and down the corporate
ladder. We work together to create these realities.
My work as a personal coach is designed to ensure that
your energies and your gifts, your talents and your
passions are fully served by the life you are living.
Whether in the corporate arena or working with individual
on actualizing personal dreams, my mission is to bring
clarity, focus, momentum and traction.
As far as educational background and training is concerned,
my college degree is from Princeton University. I completed
my coaches training at The Coaches Training Institute
(CTI)—one of the preeminent coaching institutions
in the country. I received my certification through
CTI as well and received the CPCC designation.
In addition to my coaching practice, I lead workshops,
run monthly group coaching meetings and enjoy public
speaking—everything from keynotes to presenting
for a small group.
If you are interested in learning more about the work
that I do, please feel free to call me or take a look
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My
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to offer a ‡ hour complimentary session. Please feel free
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Contact me:
Dina Silver, CPCC
Pegasus Coaching Group
310-393-8082
dina@pegasuscoachinggroup.com
www.pegasuscoachinggroup.com
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